Friday, April 30, 2010

Demystifying Me !!! - part 1



People have been complaining that I am too much of a complex person…complex in my behavior…complex in my actions…complex in my thoughts…complex in my writing…(too many times I have been commented upon my verbiage ..oh there I go again.. I meant my dabbling of words). I am now going to attempt to simplify certain things about me, my actions, my philosophy etc.

When I say hmmm

Whenever anyone chats with me, for a short while or long, I end up using hmmm quite often. What I mean by that is that either I don’t have anything to reply or think that any of my possible answers would suffice. It is not a statement on you but rather a statement on my capacity.

For eg:  Someone: do you think I look good in this salwar?
                Me: yeah absolutely. One of the best dress I have seen you wear in recent times
                Someone : you didn’t like the purple one that I wore that day???
                Me: uhhh??
                Someone : you know, the purple one with the orange polka dots on it???
                Me: Hmmmm

Seriously what else could I have said….

When I say good good

When some topics don’t interest me, I just go offline..inside my head. I stop thinking about it. It is once again not a judgment on the other person but rather my narrow area on things I am generally interested in.

For eg: Someone: yesterday my boss told me that the report that I submitted was well thought out
                Me: Good good
                Someone: the presentation that I had given last week seems to have interested the top management
                Me: Good good
                Someone : you know 10 downing street is having a special on cocktails this weekend
                Me: What.. is it during any specific hours…are stags allowed…Is there any cover charge…give me the details

As I said things which are of interest always elicit interest.

to be continued....

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